Thanks to
supergee I found this article just in time for the holiday shopping season:
http://bitchmagazine.org/post/the-trouble-with-toxic-sex-toys (if the website tries to make you sign up, reload). It features links to retailers who are taking steps to make sure they only sell safe toys. (As of now the comments are worth reading.)
It reminded me that I'd meant to post a sexual issues link spam, so I might as well.
( cut for space, mostly )