I voted for the 1 cake per household instead of the set sampler because I get the impression that a large part of it for you is getting to think about the individual person as you pick which fruitcake gets packed up to go somewhere, and this way you still get the creative variety of baking different batches and the care of the individual - and you just cut back on time, materials, and expense.
FWIW - I'd be willing to reimburse on postage, and if you were mailing everyone the same size box, you could get info ahead of time on how much postage would be for every package. And it could be purely voluntary.
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Date: 2009-09-16 05:06 pm (UTC)FWIW - I'd be willing to reimburse on postage, and if you were mailing everyone the same size box, you could get info ahead of time on how much postage would be for every package. And it could be purely voluntary.